Amor de tres en uno

Armodoxy para hoy: El amor definido

La declaración hecha por Cristo en Juan 3:16, “Porque de tal manera amó Dios al mundo, que ha dado a su Hijo unigénito”, ha sido llamada el “Evangelio en resumen”. Es recitada una y otra vez por jóvenes y mayores con tanta frecuencia que a muchos les costaría explicar su significado.

El hecho de que Dios envíe a su Hijo es la razón que se nos da como demostración de su amor por el mundo. Esta afirmación presupone que sabemos cómo terminará la historia, es decir, que Jesús será crucificado. Es la crucifixión la que le da sentido a la frase: “Porque de tal manera amó Dios al mundo, que ha dado a su Hijo unigénito”. El hecho de que Dios entregue y sacrifique a su Hijo es lo que califica su amor. En otras palabras, entendemos que Dios debe amarnos tanto que sacrifica lo mejor que tiene. Sin este acto sacrificial, la declaración está vacía.

In Armenian Orthodoxy the symbol of love is the cross. Quite different from the Western symbol of the red heart made popular by Hallmark and candy companies vying for your dollars on Valentine’s Day, the Cross is true romance because in the symbol there is pain and suffering that is voluntarily given out of love.

Reflect on your own circumstance, on your own life… Who are the people that sacrificed for you? If you can think of a person, then you are also thinking of the person who loves you. Love is painful because sacrifice hurts. Love is beautiful because sacrificing is the ultimate expression of beauty. The Cross is set apart as a symbol of magnificence because in it we understand, albeit only partially but still enough, that God’s love for us is the ultimate expression of caring, compassion and affection for us, because He gave His very best.

The Greeks use many words to describe Love, but three of them have been popularized in the Christianity, namely eros, philia and agape. Eros is the physical or sexual love. Think of the word erotic. Philia is the love between siblings, between friends. Think of Philadelphia, the City of Brotherly Love. Agape is the God-love. It is unconditional. It is sacrificial and therefore, sacrificial love, as in “God so love the world…” is unconditional. Think Jesus Christ.

Armodoxy goes one step further. In the Armenian language, there is only one word for love, “սէր” (pronounced sehr) In this one word, the erotic, brotherly, and unconditional elements of love all come together, remarkably, but not surprisingly.

Oremos, con la oración de Santa María Magdalena de Pazzi: Todos los dolores más grandes se vuelven dulces para quien mira a Jesucristo en la cruz. Amén.

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