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Monument joins Golden Gate & Coliseum

Armodoxy for Today: The Time is Right

On Friday, February 21, 2025 the Armenian Genocide Memorial Monument in Montebello, was designated as a historic landmark by the State of California, joining other historic landmarks across the state such as the Golden Gate Bridge, Hearst Castle and the Los Angeles Coliseum.

Plans for the Armenian Genocide Monument began as a dream 60 years ago. It was around the same time that plans were taking form in Yerevan, Armenia’s Capital, for the Tsitsernakaberd Genocide Memorial Monument, which today is part of a complex that is visited by hundreds of thousands of people every year.

The Armenian Genocide claimed 1.5 million Armenian lives from 1915 to 1922. It was the children of the Genocide survivors – both in Armenia and in California – that dreamt of and brought to fruition these memorial monuments.

My father was one of the dreamers. He was one of 18 men who made up the Armenian Monument Council (Montebello) and brought that dream to reality in 1968. I was 12 years at the opening of the Monument, but I remember several activities, from the groundbreaking on, where we – the kids of the Council members – were the “gofers,” doing the leg work, selling trinkets and pins at the events to collect a few dollars.

Timing is everything, they say. The timing was right for these structures to take form. In Armenia, which was part of the Soviet Union, the time was right. It was in the post-Stalinist era that this came to be. In America it was during the Civil Rights movement that ethnicity was being celebrated. The African American community was rebelling against segregation. Martin Luther King Jr. had made the “I have a Dream” speech in 1963, and protestors were chanting, “Black is beautiful” as a mantra of ethnic pride. It caught on and Mexicans were heard chanting, “Brown is beautiful” and Armenians joined in the chorus with “Olive is beautiful.”

The time was right and it all came together. This week on Armodoxy for Today, we’ll explore timing and how events, large and small, take place over the course of time, what is meant by “God’s time” and why patience is a virtue.

I share with you this gentle prayer, “Dear Lord, grant me the strength to be patient in moments of difficulty. Help me to trust in Your timing, knowing that everything happens according to Your divine plan. Guide my heart to remain calm and steadfast, even when the path seems uncertain. Fill me with Your peace and understanding, so that I may endure with grace and faith. Amen.

Timing is Everything

Armodoxy for Today: Timing is Everything

A few years back, as we rounded the corner on the last leg of a 39-mile walk, we saw the finish line glistening like an oasis, waiting in anticipation of our arrival, with cool water and a row of electric foot massagers and chairs. We walked through the streets, hills and coastal area of Santa Barbara for two days while participating in the 39-mile walk to end breast cancer sponsored by Avon. My sister is a survivor and while throughout my ministry as a priest I have shared prayers and hugs with several cancer patients and their families, when cancer hits close to home the finality of life – time – hits you in a different manner. You remember childhood experiences, travel down the timeline of life, and realize that the line does end at some point.

We organized a small group of walkers from our church under the name “In Her Shoes” and set off to join those making a difference in the fight against this ugly killer. We walked 26 miles on day one and 13 miles the next day to the finish line, where an assortment of “help” awaited, from water, music and family members who made sure we saw that a car was waiting to take us back home.

The experience is a memorable one and spiritually uplifting. Avon did a nice job of organizing the walk, with attention paid to detail. Over four hundred of us walked the route. Although there are so many moments that make the experience magical and memorable, it was on that last stretch that I heard the theory of time relativity in a manner I can’t forget.

The end was a half a block away, and volunteers were passing out flyers to the walkers inviting us to next year’s walk. A lady next to me took the flyer, looked at it and confessed, “This is just like childbirth. During the excruciating pain of labor, every woman swears they will never do this again! But after the baby has come, after a few weeks, or months, the possibility of another baby becomes more and more doable.”

Timing is everything, they say. Whether having another baby or stretching the limits of your physical abilities, the decision to do so depends on timing. We ended up walking in several of these annual walks raising millions of dollars for cancer research. And then, in 2018, Avon ended the program.

In Scripture, there are a popular set of verses that are quoted at events marked by time. From Ecclesiastes, chapter 3, we are told, “To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven.” While Hallmark has made its profit off these verses, people with ill intentions have used these phrases to justify wars and senseless acts of killing. A prophet does not predict the future, rather he or she speaks to the times.

Today, we meditate upon these verses. Listen carefully to what is being said. These words are merely an observation of our reality, they are not meant as a permission to hurt, kill or destroy. This then is a reading of Ecclesiastes, chapter 3, verses observing the reality around us.

To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven.
A time to be born,
And a time to die;
A time to plant,
And a time to pluck what is planted;
A time to kill,
And a time to heal;
A time to break down,
And a time to build up;
A time to weep,
And a time to laugh;
A time to mourn,
And a time to dance;
A time to cast away stones,
And a time to gather stones;
A time to embrace,
And a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to gain,
And a time to lose;
A time to keep,
And a time to throw away;
A time to tear,
And a time to sew;
A time to keep silence,
And a time to speak;
A time to love,
And a time to hate;
A time of war,
And a time of peace.
(3:1-8)